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Seeing the World Through Childless Glasses

June 8, 2010

I saw this Cathy cartoon in this morning’s LA Times and at first it made me laugh with the intended joke, as well as the gentle dig at support groups. But then I whipped out my childless glasses and took another look. As Cathy would say, “Ack!”

I’m looking at the expression on Cathy’s face and wondering what’s going on in her mind. If you follow Cathy at all, you’ll know that she too is childless, although it’s never really mentioned, and it’s not clear (at least to me) if this is a choice or a circumstance for her. Either way, she discovers that she has even less in common with her newfound friend, and that she’s more alone than she thought she was.

Yes, it’s a cartoon, yes, I know I’m reading far too much into it, but childlessness is a filter I bring along with me in life now and, whether I like it or not, it tints everything I see.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Fun Stuff, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes Tagged With: being childfree, cathy, childless, Childless support, Society, support group

Comments

  1. loribeth says

    June 8, 2010 at 5:43 pm

    I may be dating myself here, but I am a bigtime Cathy fan. This one was a classic, thanks for sharing!

  2. Kathleen Guthrie says

    June 9, 2010 at 9:47 am

    And I’ve beaten myself up for not being in perfect shape because “I have no excuse.”

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