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Whiny Wednesday

April 9, 2014

Whiny_WednesdayIs it self-serving to announce one’s own birthday? Oh, well. I’m 44. Who cares?

Today is my birth day, but more importantly, April is my birthday month and I am celebrating. Instead of whining about the years adding up, I’ve decided to treat myself every day this month, whether that’s taking a walk, getting some quiet reading time, or taking myself out for lunch.

As today is my actual birthday, I’m ditching off work and going to my favorite spa spot in the hills for a massage and a cedar enzyme bath. Bliss.

Obviously I have nothing to whine about today, but please feel free to vent in my absence. Just do it quietly if you will, in case I’m having a nap.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Fun Stuff, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, childless, Infertility, support

Comments

  1. Klara says

    April 9, 2014 at 6:47 am

    dear Lisa,
    Happy Happy Birthday!

    PS: since it is your birthay, we will not whine today. We can always wait until next Wednesday 🙂

    PPS: great decision – to treat yourself everyday with something nice for a month. I will copy your idea within few months.

    lots of love from sLOVEnia,

    Klara

  2. Lee Cockrum says

    April 9, 2014 at 7:41 am

    Happy birthday, and I don’t think it is self serving!! Might as well let people celebrate with you!! Almost everyone is happy to wish someone a happy birthday, so it is nice to know the day! Maybe I should do the celebrate every day plan as I will be 50 this year.

  3. Kellie King says

    April 9, 2014 at 8:43 am

    Happy happy birthday Lisa!!! Enjoy your day and month!!

  4. Jenn says

    April 9, 2014 at 10:25 am

    Happy Birthday!! I love the birthday month idea, my birthday was last Thursday. Hope you have a great day!

  5. Heather says

    April 9, 2014 at 11:33 am

    Happy birthday!!!!

  6. Amel says

    April 9, 2014 at 12:30 pm

    Happy birthday to you, Lisa! Sounds like you’ve got a whole month full of lovely birthday ideas! LOVE it! 🙂

  7. Pamela says

    April 9, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    oooh –ahhh! cedar enzyme and massage. sounds positively divine. I’m enjoying it with you vicariously. cheers to you!

  8. Mali says

    April 9, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    Happy Birthday! I’m a big fan of getting to the spa on a birthday. Good for you. I’ll toast you tonight with some nice wine. Cheers. And many more.

  9. Maria says

    April 10, 2014 at 4:38 am

    Wednesday was my birthday too! I turned 48. I took the day off from work and did all my favorite things. It was a beautiful spring day where I live so I worked in my garden, went to a coffee shop and an art gallery in the afternoon, then went out to dinner with my husband to our favorite restaurant. Had such a nice day I forgot it was whiny wednesday. Happy Birthday Lisa!

    • Lisa Manterfield says

      April 10, 2014 at 5:51 pm

      Maria,
      Belated happy birthday! Your day sounds blissful, too. 🙂
      Lisa

  10. Amelia says

    April 10, 2014 at 7:01 am

    Happy belated Birthday Lisa, I hope you had a great day and enjoy the rest of the month too 🙂

  11. Louise says

    April 10, 2014 at 10:03 am

    Belated Happy Birthday Lisa
    Have a lovely month!

  12. Lisa Manterfield says

    April 10, 2014 at 5:52 pm

    Thank you for all the lovely birthday wishes. I decided to change my plans and go for a long hike instead (bliss) but you’ll be glad to know I managed to fit in a little pampering too. 🙂

  13. Brigid says

    April 11, 2014 at 3:32 pm

    A belated Happy Birthday to you.Hope you have a great birthday weekend!!

  14. Justine Froelker says

    April 11, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    Happy belated birthday Lisa!!!! Hope you are having an amazing birthday week, no month! Justine

  15. loribeth says

    April 13, 2014 at 4:36 pm

    Happy birthday, Lisa! My dh’s birthday was Friday — April is obviously a good month…. 🙂

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