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Pet Parenting

October 21, 2013

petMy cat is my baby, and I have countless cell phone photos and cute stories to prove it.

I’m generally hesitant about talking about Felicity as my baby, as people usually look at me as if I’m insane. On more than one occasion, I’ve caught myself listening to someone talk about her child and then heard myself chip in with, “Oh, I get it. My cat…” and regaling her with a comparable pet parent tale.

So, I was very pleased to hear about a recent study that found that dogs become attached to their caregivers in the same way that human infants attach to theirs.

The researchers discovered that animals exhibit the “secure base effect,” which allows them to feel safe in an unfamiliar environment when the caregiver is present.  In other words, just like children, dogs feel more comfortable exploring the world and interacting with strangers when their “parent” is around, and a dog will bond with its parent in the same way a child bonds to his or hers.

My experience has been that this behavior is also true of cats.

And while human children eventually grow out of this behavior, our pets don’t. Which means they’ll always be our babies.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Infertility and Loss Tagged With: fb, pet parents, pets as babies, relating pets to children

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