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Memorials and Milestones

May 26, 2014

It’s Memorial Day here in the U.S. and Mr. Fab has asked that we go to the cemeteries where his relatives are buried. One of those cemeteries is also the place I had my big epiphany when I realized I was never going to have children.

I haven’t been back there since that day more than five years ago and I know it’s potentially a loaded place for me, but I think I’m going to be okay. Going back there will mark another milestone on my road to recovery and each one gets a little easier.

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MP900214902On the topic of milestones, this site passed its own milestone last week, with the 1000th post on this blog! I haven’t done the math, but I’m guessing 1000 posts equates to about 400,000 words. So, if you ever find yourself bored, feel free to browse what’s probably the equivalent of five books of posts!

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And speaking of books I have finally managed to get all your book recommendations up on the site. How long has it taken me? It took me way longer than it ought to have done and I finally found an easy way to do it. You can find the Books page here.

You’ll notice that the books are listed through the Amazon Affiliate program, which means that if you click through and buy the books from the links on this site, LWB will receive a small commission. This will help to offset the cost of providing the private community and keeping the site ad-free. (Those of you who were here in the early days may recall the site was housed on a free platform that had Google ads offering diapers, fertility clinics, and baby products.) If you’re not comfortable using the affiliate links, you can simply use the page as a list and then go directly to your preferred bookseller.

The Books page is still a work in progress and I hope to add more as I go, so please let me know if you come across a book that you think other readers would find helpful.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes Tagged With: books, childfree, childless, fb, Infertility, loss, memorial

Comments

  1. Amel says

    May 29, 2014 at 7:19 am

    CONGRATULATIONS on the milestone for your blog! I clicked on the book recommendations link but for some reason couldn’t see any books. Just two paragraphs of text. Hmmmh…

  2. Jennifer says

    May 30, 2014 at 5:57 pm

    Thank you so much for every word you’ve written here, and for creating a space for us to share, too.

    I just found out today that my sister-in-law is pregnant…and reading these posts is helping me to not lose it.

    This site is so important. Wishing you many blessings and a sending you a big hug!

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