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Whiny Wednesday: Everything Happens for a Reason

February 26, 2020

We could easily compile an entire encyclopedia of unhelpful, and even hurtful, things people have said to us. I think this one stings as much as any:

“Everything Happens for a Reason”

Do you agree? Or do you have your own favorite “helpful” slight?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Feeling Pressure to Get Over the Loss

October 2, 2019

With any kind of grief, there comes a point where those around you expect you to be over it. For many of us, that point comes just as the full impact of loss is hitting us and we are far from okay.  So here’s this week’s topic:

The pressure to “get over” your loss

Have you felt that pressure from those around you?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, miscarriage, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Caring for Aging Parents

July 10, 2019

I’ve seen this topic come up a lot in the blog comments, so I know that many of you have experienced this. It’s the topic of caring for aging parents, and whether the responsibility is shared fairly when you don’t have children.

What’s been your experience with this?

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: aging, caring, childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, parents, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Everything Happens for a Reason

February 20, 2019

We could easily compile an entire encyclopedia of unhelpful, and even hurtful, things people have said to us. I think this one stings as much as any:

“Everything Happens for a Reason”

Do you agree? Or do you have your own favorite “helpful” slight?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Caring for Aging Parents

August 29, 2018

I’ve seen this topic come up a lot in the blog comments, so I know that many of you have experienced this. It’s the topic of caring for aging parents, and whether the responsibility is shared fairly when you don’t have children.

What’s been your experience with this?

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: aging, caring, childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, parents, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Feeling Pressure to Get Over the Loss

July 25, 2018

With any kind of grief, there comes a point where those around you expect you to be over it. For many of us, that point comes just as the full impact of loss is hitting us and we are far from okay.  So here’s this week’s topic:

The pressure to “get over” your loss

Have you felt that pressure from those around you?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, miscarriage, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Having Kids Made Me Grow Up

July 18, 2018

It’s Whiny Wednesday and this is one that always makes me scratch my head:

“Having kids made me grow up.”

So, does this mean I’m not a grown-up? Because if so, I’d like to relinquish all these grown-up responsibilities I seem to have. How about you?

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Everything Happens for a Reason

April 11, 2018

We could easily compile an entire encyclopedia of unhelpful, and even hurtful, things people have said to us. I think this one stings as much as any:

“Everything Happens for a Reason”

Do you agree? Or do you have your own favorite “helpful” slight?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Caring for Aging Parents

July 26, 2017

I’ve seen this week’s topic come up a lot in the blog comments, so I know that many of you have experienced this. It’s the topic of caring for aging parents, and whether the responsibility is shared fairly when you don’t have children.

What’s been your experience with this?

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: aging, caring, childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, parents, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

Whiny Wednesday: Pressure to Get Over Loss

July 19, 2017

With any kind of grief, there comes a point where those around you expect you to be over it. For many of us, that point comes just as the full impact of loss is hitting us and we are far from okay.  So here’s this week’s topic:

The pressure to “get over” your loss

Have you felt that pressure from those around you?

 

Filed Under: Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree-not-by-choice, childless, childless not by choice, fb, grief, help, hurtful comments, Infertility, loss, miscarriage, pregnancy, Whine, whiny wednesday

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