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Whiny Wednesday: It’s Your Turn Next

June 17, 2020

A friend sent this picture to me and it made me laugh out loud.Then it got me wondering how this could work for those women (and it’s usually women) at baby showers and family gatherings who unwittingly assume that yours will be the next belly to be celebrated and adored. I haven’t come up with an appropriate equivalent yet, but I’m working on it.

It’s Whiny Wednesday, your chance to let off steam among friends. Feel free to vent at will.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Children, Family and Friends, Fun Stuff, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: baby shower, family, Mother's Day, pregnancy, pressure, wedding

Whiny Wednesday: Pressure to be Amazing

April 8, 2020


My apologies for missing last week’s Whiny Wednesday. It wasn’t some cruel April Fool’s joke; I just forgot to hit the “Publish” button!

Often we feel pressure to do something incredible with our lives because we won’t be doing the other “incredible” thing: being mothers.

In the past it’s sparked some healthy discussion, so I thought I’d use it as this week’s Whiny Wednesday topic:

Feeling the pressure to do something else amazing instead

Let the healthy discussion begin!

Filed Under: Childless Not By Choice, Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, childless, fb, Infertility, motherhood, pressure

Whiny Wednesday: It’s Your Turn Next

July 31, 2019


A friend sent this picture to me and it made me laugh out loud.Then it got me wondering how this could work for those women (and it’s usually women) at baby showers and family gatherings who unwittingly assume that yours will be the next belly to be celebrated and adored. I haven’t come up with an appropriate equivalent yet, but I’m working on it.

It’s Whiny Wednesday, your chance to let off steam among friends. Feel free to vent at will.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Children, Family and Friends, Fun Stuff, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: baby shower, family, Mother's Day, pregnancy, pressure, wedding

Whiny Wednesday: Pressure to be Amazing

March 13, 2019


Often we feel pressure to do something incredible with our lives because we won’t be doing the other “incredible” thing: being mothers.

In the past it’s sparked some healthy discussion, so I thought I’d use it as this week’s Whiny Wednesday topic:

Feeling the pressure to do something else amazing instead

Let the healthy discussion begin!

Filed Under: Childless Not By Choice, Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, childless, fb, Infertility, motherhood, pressure

Whiny Wednesday: Pressure to be Amazing

February 14, 2018


Often we feel pressure to do something incredible with our lives because we won’t be doing the other “incredible” thing: being mothers.

In the past it’s sparked some healthy discussion, so I thought I’d use it as this week’s Whiny Wednesday topic:

Feeling the pressure to do something else amazing instead

Let the healthy discussion begin!

Filed Under: Childless Not By Choice, Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, childless, fb, Infertility, motherhood, pressure

Whiny Wednesday: Pressure to be Amazing

February 15, 2017


Often we feel pressure to do something incredible with our lives because we won’t be doing the other “incredible” thing: being mothers.

In the past it’s sparked some healthy discussion, so I thought I’d use it as this week’s Whiny Wednesday topic:

Feeling the pressure to do something else amazing instead

Let the healthy discussion begin!

Filed Under: Childless Not By Choice, Infertility and Loss, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, childless, fb, Infertility, motherhood, pressure

Whiny Wednesday: It’s Your Turn Next

May 9, 2012

A friend posted this picture on Facebook and it made me laugh out loud.

Then it got me wondering how this could work for those women (and it’s usually women) at baby showers and family gatherings who unwittingly assume that yours will be the next belly to be celebrated and adored. I haven’t come up with an appropriate equivalent yet, but I’m working on it.

It’s Whiny Wednesday and I know that for those of you in countries that celebrate Mother’s Day this weekend, this week could also lovingly be called Hell Week. So, here’s your chance to let off steam among friends. Feel free to vent at will.

Filed Under: Childfree by Choice, Childless Not By Choice, Children, Family and Friends, Fun Stuff, The Childfree Life: Issues and Attitudes, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: baby shower, family, Mother's Day, pregnancy, pressure, wedding

Thanksgiving Safe Zone

November 25, 2010

Your cousin announces that baby number 8 is on the way. Your Great Aunt Tillie asks when you are going to have kids. Your mother gives you a pointed look when she mentions how lucky her friend Gladys is to have so many grandchildren.

Wanna get away?

In lieu of yesterday’s Whiny Wednesday, I’m offering the Thanksgiving Safe Zone today. If it all gets too much, just come on over and let it all out here.

Someone will be around to hear you, I promise.

Filed Under: Family and Friends, Fun Stuff, Whiny Wednesdays Tagged With: childfree, family, pressure, thanksgiving

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